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Make sure you are getting married for the right reasons!

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Image Attribute: <a href='https://www.freepik.com/photos/wedding'>Wedding photo created by freepic.diller - www.freepik.com</a> Before we begin let me make it clear that this blog is not about whether or not one should get married. It contains some insights on the ideal reasons to get married from the experiences of those who are planning to get married in the near future and from the married couples. The objective being, to break the traditional beliefs and enhance thoughts on Indian marriage culture. It is important to clarify your reasons for getting married as wrong reasons can turn your fantasy world’s happily ever after marriage life into a toxic relationship. Starting with some traditional reasons because it's high time to say a big NO to them. The following situations don’t justify the reasons for anyone to get married. You are in you in your late 20’s ( or whatever age you are in, it doesn’t matter) Societal Pressure Parents are consistently forcing you...

Learn to Embrace the Randomness of Life!

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                                                                                                 Image Source: scoopwhoop.com  Embracing Randomness… Wondering what embracing randomness means? Explaining it quite literally, we can interpret this as Accepting The Unplanned. Not all our plans get successful, right? Especially the Goa plan with friends. Still, I am sure every one of you will agree that the unplanned trips are much better than the planned ones. But not everything is that easy to accept, just as some of those questions that we find out to be “out of syllabus”. There are things that we don’t actually plan but we know for sure that, “these are the things that I want or don’t want in my life”. For example, You never really plan or de...

SHOONYA- A Festival of Nothingness

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  As a human race, we have always speculated about things that accomplish something and has got some meaning. But have you ever pondered about the word "nothingness"? Each and every one of us is in a race to complete something and this leads to a lifestyle encircled by havoc. Maybe, it's time for us to forget everything and do nothing for a while! And coming to nothingness, how can we forget one of the greatest festivals in India - Shoonya. Shoonya is a 3-day carnival which occurs every year in Jibhi during the month of June. Jibhi is a small place located in the Tirthan valley near Manali. It takes around 12 hours of drive from New Delhi. It is one of such places where you can literally just sit and do nothing till the end of time. Coming back to Shoonya, it is shrouded around the theme " nothingness". Now, the question is how do you define nothingness? A general survey showed that most of the people who visit this festival are not fascinated by the idea of Sho...